Category: Marriage Coaching
Are people putting too much effort into saving relationships?
Are people putting too much effort into saving relationships when they should really be breaking up and moving on? So I’ve received a question on our website, and I wanted to answer it. It’s a really good question actually. The following text is a direct transcription from the video In my opinion, people give up […]
This Is What Happens When You Stop Making An Effort…
How did you picture relationships when you were a kid? Did you imagine the fairy tale of falling in love, making a commitment and living happily ever after? If so, join the club. Disney has a lot to answer for when it comes to preparing kids for real life. Stories about falling in love always […]
Is addiction killing your marriage?
I talk a lot about healing from the trauma of a failed marriage, or from the painful things that you and your partner have said and done to each other in the past. But you know what no one can heal from? Injuries that are currently being inflicted on you. Wounds that have salt pouring […]
Do you know how to fight right in your relationship?
Learn how to fight the right way and avoid conflict with a new partner Guess what? International Pillow Fight Day takes place this month (yes, there really is a day for everything, folks!). And, while it might sound daft, there’s nothing like a light hearted playfight with your other half to let off steam, behave like big […]
Cling On – or let go? Pt3
Okay, we’ve now talked about how your relationship dynamic affects your basic needs to feel safe and secure Part One and your psychological need to feel loved and valued Part Two. But what about the top of the pyramid: self-fulfilment? Self-fulfilment In the grand scheme of things, at least for people from most walks of […]
Cling on – or let go? Pt2
In part 1 of this series, I talked about how all humans have a basic need to feel safe and secure, and how to make sure that you offer that to your partner in ways that are healthy and not controlling or counterproductive. But this is only the tip of the iceberg. Or, in Maslovian […]
Cling on – or let go? Pt1
They take no notice of me. They don’t support me or show any interest in my job, or my passions, or my interests. They don’t listen. They seem bored when we’re together. I don’t feel they’re proud to be with me. They don’t call or text to see how I’m doing. They’re always too busy […]
Creating your dream relationship blueprint
The most important place to start is to ensure that you’ve made a big, clear, wide-open space in which to create your dream relationship blueprint. That work is the work that takes the courage to heal ethically, to find the sources of your previous relationship’s break-up or divorce. Clearing So you’ve created a wide-open space […]
How to turn your marriage around in just 2 days
How to turn your marriage around in just 2 days A provocative title indeed. Could be triggering, especially if you are feeling brittle and war-wounded from doing battle with your spouse. Perhaps you are feeling upset and alone in your marriage, misunderstood by your partner or fighting so much that you have lost your connection. […]