The Naked Marriage Assessment is just what you need. Common challenges like communication, finances, sex and intimacy, infidelity, religious and cultural differences, and in-law issues can threaten the stability of your marriage. The issues you identify may only scratch the surface. Our marriage coach will explore the roots of your challenges to offer insight and guidance.
Don’t let uncertainty linger—take a proactive step to get clarity in your marriage.
What you might face during the time of your marriage
Communication Breakdown
Trust Issues
Frequent Disagreement
Lack of Togetherness
Faded Intimacy
Recognizing and addressing these concerns early on is pivotal for the long-term health of your relationship. That’s where our marriage assessment program comes in, offering a guided exploration to understand the issues better and figure out if there’s a chance to make things better.
Drawing from our experience and studies at the Gottman Institute, We’ve identified six clear signs that a marriage is heading towards divorce:
Harsh Startup: Sets a negative tone from the beginning, laden with criticism and irritation.
Four Horsemen: Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling often lead to defensive arguments and communication breakdowns.
Flooding: Multiple issues unloaded in a single conversation, hindering effective communication.
Bad Body Language: Distance or aggression, indicating potential trouble.
Failed Repair Attempts: When one party tries to mend things, but the other continues negative patterns.
Accumulation of Bad Feelings: A pervasive sense of negativity and unresolved issues.
At Naked Marriage, we believe in proactive intervention. Our marriage assessment program is designed to provide a comprehensive analysis of your relationship, indicating whether there’s hope for recovery.
Don’t wait until it’s too late; take swift action, learn essential skills, and shift the environment to save your marriage. Join us for a health check today and let’s work together to build a stronger, more resilient relationship.
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What is a Marriage Assessment?
A Marriage Assessment is a special 3-hour session which will help you to assess your marriage situation and get some clarity of your marriage. Our team and those who work on the Naked Marriage have transformed the lives of thousands of people over the 11 years. We really know an effective pathway to helping people get over the emotional turmoil, circumstances and pressures you have encountered during marriage.
So I invite you to join us in a special Marriage Assessment. It’s a call to help you achieve clarity on your divorce or break up. In this hour, you will:
Get Unstuck
Uncover the inhibitors which are keeping you stuck and keeping you from getting clarity and making a choice
Get Clear
Have the clarity and the key frameworks that will help you identify, organize and plan your next steps
Move Forward
Address any concerns or challenges you may need to overcome moving forward
Why You Should Assess the Condition of Your Relationships:
Evaluating the strength of your connection is analogous to getting routine checkups on your mental health. Both are important to your overall happiness. This is why it is so important:
Prevention and Early Intervention:In the same way that going to the doctor for checkups on a regular basis can discover potential health concerns before they become serious, evaluating the state of your relationship can reveal underlying difficulties before they develop into big problems.
Strengthening Bonds:Bonds Can Be Strengthened By Understanding the Dynamics and Strengths of Your Relationship If you understand the dynamics and strengths of your relationship, you will be able to discover areas in which you and your spouse can grow closer to one another.
Gaining Clarity and Direction:A relationship evaluation can help you gain clarity about where you currently are as a couple and where you want to head in the future. It is helpful in setting goals and developing a road plan for a fulfilling future that we can experience together.
What Makes Us Stand Out is Our Unique Approach
Our marriage assessment service stands out by utilizing a comprehensive approach that goes beyond general evaluations. Unlike traditional assessments, we employ “The 8 Areas of Health of a Marriage,” providing a nuanced understanding of various dimensions crucial to marital well-being. This tailored framework enables our experienced marriage coaches to delve deeper into specific aspects such as communication, intimacy, and conflict resolution. By focusing on these key areas, we ensure a more personalized and insightful analysis for couples.
The 8 areas of health of a marriage
We meticulously evaluate eight crucial areas to determine the viability of your marriage, carefully examining whether it has the potential for salvage or has already traversed the difficult terrain of a relationship rift.
Commitment in a marriage involves the level of dedication and devotion each partner brings to the relationship. It’s about asking whether both individuals are genuinely committed to making the marriage work, even in the face of challenges. Assessing commitment helps gauge the willingness of both partners to invest time, effort, and emotions into the marriage. It provides insights into the long-term viability of the relationship.
Compatibility assesses how well partners can work together in harmony. It explores whether their personalities, values, and life goals align or if there are fundamental gaps that need attention. Understanding compatibility is essential for predicting how smoothly a couple can navigate life together. It sheds light on potential sources of conflict and areas where adjustments may be needed.
The “system” refers to the structure and dynamics within a relationship. This includes roles, decision-making processes, and the division of responsibilities between partners. Examining the relationship system provides insights into how well the couple collaborates, communicates, and shares responsibilities. A well-functioning system is crucial for maintaining harmony and fostering growth.
The History of a relationship reflects the journey a couple has taken together. It involves revisiting highs and lows, rehashing old arguments, and reflecting on major life events to gain perspective. Exploring the history of the relationship helps uncover patterns, understand resilience, and identify factors that contribute to the current dynamics within the marriage.
Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. It involves assessing how well partners communicate, feel heard and understood, and whether any barriers hinder honest and open conversation. Evaluating communication highlights areas for improvement, enabling couples to enhance their ability to express thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively.
Before understanding a partner, it’s crucial to have self-awareness. This involves testing emotional intelligence and awareness of personal wants, desires, and triggers within the context of the relationship. Self-awareness contributes to healthier communication and conflict resolution. It empowers individuals to bring a more grounded and informed self to the marriage.
This area delves into the capacity to empathize with a spouse, genuinely understand their perspective, requirements, and feelings. It emphasizes making a meaningful connection through improved communication. Assessing understanding of the partner fosters empathy and mutual comprehension, strengthening the emotional connection within the marriage.
Chemistry is the invisible yet vital factor that sparks and maintains the romantic aspect of a relationship. It includes both physical attraction and emotional connection. Evaluating chemistry helps gauge the level of passion and connection between partners, contributing to the overall vibrancy and satisfaction within the marriage.
After you have evaluated your partnership in these eight important areas, the next stages will become more obvious to you:
Define Precise Goals for Your Relationship.Based on the Results of the Assessment, Set Precise Goals for Your Relationship. You and your partner can work towards a healthier and happier partnership with the support of these goals.
Seek Assistance.If the evaluation shows severe problems, you should seriously consider receiving assistance from a professional, such as through couples counselling or therapy. These tools have the potential to offer direction and techniques for tackling more fundamental challenges.
Decide.Consider the pivotal choice of either concluding your marriage or actively striving to salvage it by collaborating with your partner. This decision holds the potential to profoundly influence the trajectory ahead for both of you.
Recognise and Honour Accomplishments.It is important to recognise and honour the accomplishments in your relationship that are highlighted favourably in the assessment. Your self-assurance and willingness to continue developing as a unit can both benefit from this.
Beyond Challenges, Toward Clarity: Discovering the Heart of Your Marriage
We assist couples in identifying and taking inventory of their individual strengths, helping them understand how these strengths may complement or conflict with each other. Our goal is to guide you in discerning whether the challenges you face are navigable and to provide insights into whether your marriage holds the potential for meaningful transformation. Delving into the intricacies of your relationship dynamics, our aim is to empower you and your spouse to collaboratively create and sustain a healthy and enriching marriage if it is indeed salvageable.
The risks of ignoring problems in your marriage
Ignoring problems in your marriage can lead to issues for yourself and the health of the individuals within the partnership. Failure to get the right support can leave you vulnerable to mental and physical risks which include:
20
%
RISK HEART DISEASE
Data: Web MD study conducted in 2019 – check statistics here: www.webmd.com
23
%
RISK OF DEATH
Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
33
%
MARRIED COUPLES EXPERIENCE VIOLENCE WHEN DISTRESSED
Data: Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies
www.abct.org
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