The Marriage Program

I think it’s important to have constructive and pragmatic tools you can both use to move your relationship to a great place. You will find that I work very differently to most therapists as I believe that a successful relationship is based on a formula and I teach this formula to all my clients. I work like a coach and I lead sessions in very proactive way with clear topics. My approach is not at all like talking therapy where the therapist largely says very little and the couple figure out the direction they want to go. I lead and have a very clear path as I figure that someone in the equation needs to mediate everyone else out of where they are at. My approach is very goal-oriented and each session covers specific topics so I can teach you both the principles to reset the context of your relationship.

SO it’s kind of like Relationship School. This might sound strange at this stage of life but each session will feel like learning brand new skills and techniques so calling it a school is probably the best description.

AND like School, the success of this hinges on your engagement and quality of homework done between sessions. If you work hard = you will thrive and succeed.

I will be teaching you my formula and it looks something like this:

DURATION

I design the programme around what the couple need to achieve based on an initial assessment.

INVESTMENT

I recommend committing to weekly work. If anyone also needs individual work, that can be factored in as well.

All programmes include email support in-between.

I work fast and focus on results. I believe in homework and accountability and will project manage the two of you through this BUT I need to know you are both 100% engaged and working hard on doing the work I assign. You will both need to agree to be totally engaged in the journey.

As this is more ‘coaching’ and ‘facilitating’ than traditional therapy, we shall just call it coaching.